In this day and age extra marital affairs, and skyrocketing divorce rates many single women are navigating the dating scene and seem to be attracting married men into their lives even though this is the last thing they truly want. With much pain and frustration they ask "Why Do I Keep Attracting Married Men and Only Married Men?!" What am I doing wrong?!
First off lets get out of the negative thought pattern of assuming that you are doing something wrong ladies! You might be lonely and tempted to go there and so you might be sending out that vibe but that is being human and there is much more to it than that! It is more likely that you attract married men because have great energy, zest for life and confidence to go after your dreams. It is exactly these assets that are drawing these selfish or messed up married guys to you. They admire what you have and they want a hit of your high energy.
The more I do relationship readings the more I have noticed this pattern happening. Usually ladies you are younger than the married men that pursue you and your life is in some kind of transition. Energetically you feel like you are on shaky ground and so you may be insecure even though a huge good transition is just around the corner in your life.
The combination of the vulnerability and your future potential success and strength is what these married guys are attracted to. They are not happy in their own lives and so they want to have a fantasy experience with someone who does not have all the complications and responsibilities they are saddled with. While this is selfish thinking and some of these men may just be players there are some who really are just unhappy and not able or willing to make the changes they need to in their lives. Because they do not have the courage to make lasting change they then look for ways to alleviate their anger, frustration and boredom and ladies you come along with your great energy and personal power and they want to just be in that energy even if it is only for a little while.
So what is wrong with the single guys then? That is a great question! I am glad you asked... While you have really strong personal power and great energy that they would love draw from the simple answer to the question is that the single guys are intimidated. They see that you have a plan and goals and focus on the future and they just don't know how to handle this kind of woman. Now this is not to say that all single guys are like that but you will find as you really raise your own energy signature the more difficult it is for men to relate to you. You may find less men to choose from but the the quality is better and THAT is what counts!
Remember that who you attract into your life is more about what you are doing right than what you are doing wrong in many cases. We draw certain people into our lives at various times because we have different lessons to learn. And while some of you ladies might be in bad places in your lives and attract the wrong man to you many times wondering what the heck is up with that, there are still lessons to learn from these repeated experiences and they centre around self-respect, self-awareness, and self-esteem.