In the last blog we were looking at why some women attract married men. As I said then, it is a matter of energy and more about what the ladies are doing right than wrong.Cheating on your spouse is about as low as you can go in a relationship and while I am writing this from a woman's point of view the same rules apply if it is a married woman who is cheating also. As I understand it all actions have consequences and those actions that are duplicitous are bound to have a negative impact on everyone involved.
Unfortunately, the individual cheating is in such a low energy vibration that they are acting almost on a subconscious or an unaware level. They want what they want and often times do not care what the consequences are. Here again we see that the married men are looking for an energy hit and if you ladies are vulnerable you might just give it to them.
So where does the energy they are after come from? It is now time to discuss what an energy signature is and how each of them is different.
In spiritual terms an energy signature is just like a finger print. Some people call it your aura or an energy field. Regardless of the name you give it, it is unique to you and identifies you from everyone else around you.
Source: http://www.byregion.net/cgibin/users/profiles.pl?username=auraimaging
Above is a picture of a woman's aura/ energy signature this is often what I see around people and it does change in brightness and clarity depending on what is going on in the person's life. In the case of this woman she is dealing with a lot of emotional and spiritual growth.
Now when you are in a good place in your life and spiritually and intuitively on track your energy signature is strong, and at a high vibrational level. On the other hand if you are in a mess in your life and very unhappy or unsettled in your life your energy signature will indicate this by resonating a a much lower vibrational level. You will feel that something is lacking and you will feel like you need to fill up.
An intuitive like myself might see this "need to fill up" as a dark or cloudy aura around the person and the energy might even feel heavy and repressing to someone on a much higher vibrational level.
In the case of the married men coming your way, ladies likely your energy signature is in a better stronger vibrational level and so they will gravitate towards it in an effort to fill up energetically and feel better about their lives. While this may work for them for a short time it is not good for you.
What happens to you ladies when mister married and unavailable has taken what he needs from you? Even if you are not psychic you do have intuition and you do know when someone's energy does not fit with yours. You may avoid it for a while but eventually you end up feeling deflated and depleted when all is said and done. So much so that some of you will even equate the feeling to being "used" by the guy.
Simply put when two energy signatures are brought together the higher vibration will accommodate the lower one because the lover vibration is not able to move up beyond where it is at while the higher one can be brought down even if it is only a temporary situation. Like many other situations in life energy signatures will play to the lowest common denominator. So while you might give him a brief energetic lift this married man is literally sapping your life energy and dragging you down.
In the next blog we will look at self-respect, self-awareness and self-esteem and how to strengthen these so you can boost your energy signature. Especially if you have gotten drawn into a situation with a married man, you might be feeling low and guilty and so you have to rebuild your confidence.

Hello Helen:
Sorry for the delay in reply!
Yes it is difficult when you must see the man daily and have to deal with him on a regular basis but self-awareness does lead to self-esteem and self-respect. When you do know why something is happening you can choose how you wish to respond to it. That is the subject of the next blog.
Posted by: Catherine MacDonald Spiritualist Medium/Psychic | 10/05/2009 at 05:39 PM
Hi Catherine,
This blog is so great. It's exactly what I need right now in trying to understand myself in this situation and move on. It's difficult, as I have to see this man nearly daily, but I feel hopeful that I can get through it after reading your blog. I am so thankful I found you online!
Helen
Posted by: Helen | 09/21/2009 at 10:30 AM